For a Confused Girl Like Me!!!!!!!!!!

This piece of writing dedicated to those girls, who like me want to do so much in life but for whom the path is very confused and uncertain.

In this century we are so much bombarded by the options and choices available that we get confused which option is the best for us or probably which option will make us happy for happiness is the ultimate pleasure of life. This also makes us difficult in choosing as to what is that which pleases my heart. And to add fuel to the fire, todays generation is living with a disease called boredom. Yes thats the word ''DISEASE''. It would seem stupid to call boredom as disease but believe me its really a disease. DISEASE mean Dis-Ease, anything with which we are not at ease. And boredom is something which makes us uneasy.

And guys mind well boredom is not caused only when we have nothing to do, but boredom also occurs when we have so much to do but we don't have time to do and just by thinking and worrying about shortage of time we do nothing and lay up wasting our entire weekend and than lamenting at night '' we could do something better to make our day better''. This guilt of not utilizing the weekend productively affects your entire week. You don't work properly at your office, things move in haphazard ways, their is no plan of work or action and your precious 84 hours are gone (Assuming you work 12 hours a day 7*12=84).

And readers this is not to afraid you but believe me boredom creates frustration and anger which ultimately spoils your relations with loved ones. Your boredom can make your loved one frustrated which in turn passes on to the environment around and people with whom they are associated. And ultimately this boredom pictures you as a boring personality in eyes of others which might cause you to loose your friendship.

A simple example of myself to share with you. I am a kind of person who has hobbies of varied types. I want to learn fengshui, probably make a career in it, do PhD on stock market technical and fundamental analysis, want to learn Healing and Tarot, write blogs, socialise on facebook, watch movies, surf on internet, go for shopping, click photos and much much more. Obviously i cant do all at once. You can understand how difficult it is. All these options annoyed me so much that i passed many weekends in frustration and doing nothing when i could have done very well by doing one thing at a time. Remember food is consumed morsel by morsel and not at once.

But now i have learnt that Rome was not built in a day. Similarly the things you want to achieve in life are achieved one by one so that you enjoy the process of achievement one by one giving ultimate satisfaction to your soul

And guys their is a good news. You can remove your boredom and work energetically the entire week which can also impress your boss :). You know how that can be done? Just consciously mind well consciously, try to live your sat and sunday energetically accomplishing all that you cant during weekdays. Enjoy your hobbies, go out for shopping, increase your knowledge on that day and you will see how the entire week goes in a planned way making you happy inside. I emphasize on the word consciously because at first it will be difficult to apply it since we are used to spend our sundays in front of 29'' Idiot box with remote in our hands surfing channels and listening to whats going on in others lives. But hey its time to improve your life. Isnt it.

One simple thing to begin with is develop a reading hobby. Guys its a proven formula for success. A mere reading can take you to that level you cant think of.

So spend your weekends by spreading lot of energies around. Take care and keep watching secret by gunjan at blogspot.com

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BOOK REVIEWS

Hi everybody. Sorry for taking a break in writing. Since many days i was thinking what to write in blog, how to make it more interesting for others to read and for myself to continue writing. So i have thought i would start writing some beautiful lines and writings from the books that i am currently reading. This will have a two fold benefits. One, it would be a good source of book review for people who love to read and Second, it would increase my understanding and my capability to apply those good things mentioned in books, in my actual life.

Currently i am reading a book called "How to stop worrying and start living" by Dale Carnegie. It is the book for those who WORRY TOO MUCH in their lives. Some of the lines from the book are as below.
CHAPTER 9 COOPERATE WITH THE INEVITABLE
An inscription on the ruins of a fifteenth century cathedral in Amsterdam says "It is so. It cannot be otherwise."
As you and i march across the decades of time, we are going to meet a lot of unpleasant situations that are so. They cannot be otherwise. We have our choice. We can either accept them as inevitable and adjust ourselves to them, or we can ruin our lives with rebellion and maybe end up with a nervous breakdown.
"Acceptance of what has happened is the first step to overcoming the consequences of any misfortune." ( if my ipru colleagues are reading it, the best example for cooperate with inevitable is the OFFICE SCANNING problem faced by us.)

Obviously circumstances alone do not make us happy or unhappy. It is the way we react to circustances that determines our feelings. Jesus said that the kindgom of heaven is within you. That is where the kingdom of hell is, too.

The priceless prayer by Dr. Reinhold Niebuhr.
God grant me the serenity
To accept the things i cannot change,
The courage to change the things i can;
And the wisdom to know the difference.